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So, you’ve got a baby on the way. Congratulations! Among the dozens of decisions ahead (cribs, names, stroller colours), you might be wondering when to plan that exciting moment when everyone finds out: “Is it a boy or a girl?”
Gender reveal parties have become a fun and memorable way to share the big news with loved ones. But let’s be honest, timing it right can feel a little confusing. Do you wait until the second trimester? Do you combine it with your baby shower? Is it okay to keep it small?
Don't worry, we're here to walk you through everything you need to know in this ultimate guide to party hosting.
Let’s break it down in the simplest, most practical way possible!
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Before you plan a reveal, you'll need to have the information to reveal! So, when exactly can you find out your baby’s gender?
There are two common ways:
Most parents find out the baby’s gender during the anatomy scan around 18–22 weeks of pregnancy.
An ultrasound is a detailed look at your baby’s development, and gender is usually visible; if your little one isn’t being shy!
This is a blood test that can determine the baby’s gender as early as 10 weeks.
It’s typically done for medical screening, but also includes chromosome information (XX or XY).
So, depending on the route you go, you could know the gender as early as 10 weeks or as late as 22 weeks. That gives you plenty of wiggle room for planning your reveal.
Planning the reveal around 18–22 weeks works great, but there are a few other things to keep in mind before you set the date:
Sometimes you might need to wait a few days (or even a week) after your scan to get the official results. Make sure you build in time for this before locking down your party date.
If you want loved ones to join the celebration, check their schedules early. It’s best to give everyone at least 2–3 weeks’ notice, especially if they’re travelling.
Whether you’re doing a cosy indoor event or a backyard bash, think about the time of year, weather, and any venue restrictions. Especially in warm places like Singapore, an indoor option might be a lifesaver. Check out this blog on how to select the perfect event venue.
This is a question a lot of expecting parents ask: Should I combine my gender reveal with my baby shower, or keep it separate?
Pros of Combining:
Cons of Combining:
There’s no right or wrong here. If you’re someone who prefers less planning and fewer events, combining makes sense. But if you love celebrating each moment on its own, keeping them separate adds more fun to the journey.
Want to make sure your reveal goes off without a hitch? Here are a few quick tips for unforgettable events:
Once you’ve got your date in mind, send out invites or group messages early. Two to three weeks in advance is ideal, especially if people need to take time off work or travel.
Most guests will be more available on Saturdays or Sundays. If you’re doing a brunch or dinner, pick a time that gives people space to arrive without rushing.
Have loved ones abroad or out of town? Set up a video call or livestream so they can join in the fun. Bonus: you’ll have the moment recorded, too!
So, when do you do a gender reveal party? The simple answer is: whenever it feels right for you. Whether that’s 10 weeks in with a private dinner or a big celebration at 20 weeks with family and friends, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach.
As long as you’ve got your people (whether in person or virtually), some excitement, and a sprinkle of surprise, you’re already winning.
Take your time, plan what feels fun, and enjoy the ride. This is one of those little milestones that you’ll remember forever.
Want to make it extra special? Let The Carnival Fair help you bring your dream gender reveal party to life. Whether you’re keeping it simple or making it a big moment, we’re all about helping you create memories that last.
You can plan a gender reveal as early as 10 weeks if you’ve taken a Non-Invasive Prenatal Test (NIPT), which can detect the baby’s gender through a blood test. Just make sure your doctor has confirmed the results before you start planning.
Most parents choose to have their gender reveal party between 18 and 22 weeks of pregnancy. This is when the baby’s gender is usually confirmed during the anatomy scan, and many parents feel more comfortable sharing the news by then.
Yes! Many people choose to combine both events, especially if they’re held in the second trimester. Just keep in mind that combining them might shift the focus, so if you want each celebration to have its own spotlight, consider keeping them separate.
That’s totally okay! A gender reveal doesn’t have to be a big party. You can do a private reveal with your partner, a virtual call with family, or even a special moment during dinner. It’s all about what feels right for you.
Not at all! Some parents wait until later in the pregnancy to announce the gender, either due to delayed results or personal choice. Just be sure you’re still feeling comfortable enough to enjoy the event.
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